Rihanna gave a fan some really good advice to live by and one thing about her she will most of the time be available for her fans, even though the spotlight is on Beyonce’ Rihanna is still my fav, both are truly. A fan sent a private message saying: “Hey Rih, I hope it’s not a bad time to message. Just been down lately and wondering if you had any words of encouragement. Trust issues with men.” Rihanna responded back very quick, check what she said after the flip.
Rihanna responded immediately:
Anytime I have trust issues, I often assume that it has a lot to do with myself. Most of the time it’s difficult to differentiate. Intuition and insecurities! But no one ever wants to wait to figure it out. Whatever we do, we don’t want to feel stupid! So we tend to jump the gun with no evidence to back it up. That’s the biggest mistake anyone could ever make.
My advice, which is exactly what I’ve done, is if sh-t isn’t making sense to me, I’m out. I mean cold turkey! I always need to step out of it to see it for what it is cuz I refuse to let a man play me. If he has no respect, he just doesn’t!
But you don’t have to allow it or be bound by it.
If Rihanna did not say that….. it seems like Rhi Rhi has learned from her situation with Chris and these other guys, We all made dumb decisions about guys in our 20’s, some more extreme (domestic violence) than others. As long as you learn from your mistakes.
I think Rihanna will mellow out a bit in the coming years or so.She had her “wild”, edgy years and now I think she’ll be serving some maturity.She’ll still be fiesty, but more chill. It will be interesting to see who her next man will be.Something tells me that it will be a non-celeb out of the spotlight, maybe someone behind the scenes.