One of Todd Rucker’s Ex’s Talks About His Motives Toward Kandi, Mama Joyce Maybe Right ?


Everyone was so up in arms when they saw Mama Joyce acting a straight fool because of her disdain for Todd and even though she put up a hard fight, eventually she gave in… But now after everything has been said and done, now his ex’s are putting him on blast.. Telling their encounters with Todd Rucker stating that he is nothing but a user and they are tired of him being portrayed like he is really this good guy…..

In the comments section of you can see two women going back and forth discussing Todd and the drama she  encountered with him.. Let’s just say if this is true.. It’s sad… Oh, and they pointed that he did indeed have a girlfriend at the time he met Kandi… But because she was showering him with gifts and what not, it made his choice easier to make…

July 7, 2014 at 12:47 pm
Unfortunately, I happen to know Todd, and the Todd I know is NOTHING like this, why is it only me, that it seems weird why put up with all of this, oh money. Todd is the most hungry money man I have ever known, and his bedroom skills will keep his bank roll, rolling……Kandi is paying for it…literally. Do you people actually think, someone could talk about your mother, and daughter that way, and you just smile…..He is smiling because he got the last laugh, all the way to the bank. He doesn’t need the prenup, he is enjoying NOW!

July 7, 2014 at 5:02 pm
He is a swordsman! lol can’t take that from him

July 7, 2014 at 4:54 pm
You pegged it right, l don’t know Kandi, just speculation with her, but I know Todd drinks heavily, and spent a good portion of my money, and I am no Kandi in the pocketbook. As far also as Kandi’s mother goes, she is telling the truth, by the time I got with him, she was a booster. So for the all the people coming down on her mother, believe me……her mother knows things about him, that made me pause on she who knows in nyc. I am no jealous ex, there were others after me, in fact the reason for our break up, but I know this! He had a girlfriend while with Kandi, and Kandi bought him things and a Leo man likes to shine! The Todd I know didn’t want to be in front of the camera cause of his dirt….period. I don’t know why women can’t see thru this, I know why I didn’t lol…..but this image of what such a nice man, to let his mother be found out, and daughter dissed and he just speaks in his special ed para soft voice ( and yes, he was an assistant teacher for the nyc doe) is crazy. But so is most of the black women on the show, taking care of their men…. You think the producers of R&B divas are glad about Todd taking their idea and putting it with Hollywood divas… the way, his brother wasn’t at the wedding…I wonder why? Kandi Enjoy, your price tag of having him is much higher than my was, and I feel I got off lucky. BTW Todd’s type….not Kandi either.

July 7, 2014 at 7:51 pm
When I was dating him, in short, but not short, he lived with his mother in the Bronx, anytime I saw her she was drunk to me, and boosted designer clothes. She referred to me as the pretty yellow girl, I was older and we both worked at the same school. He told me what his mother and father were, he seemed to think it was cool, he has a half brother in Cali who is older. I gave him pity sex from an incident that happened and he wore me out, taught an old girl new tricks, but I paid for it. I was trying to have a normal life, stopped dating dealers and rappers, only to be swindled by a young buck…lol He drank, went to strip clubs and was a player in every sense of the word, after the ordeal I got married, he pulled a nasty stunt at my wedding (only wish I could have done it at his) and pursued me during my marriage. I grew up, got tired of the game, and know some of his ex”s we all look the same. It is more sordid and nasty but what can I say. I just can’t stand anymore people, especially women thinking he is such a good guy. If my husband every sees him, it won’t be pretty, so I suggest he stay in Ga. I knew about Kayla, and the story behind that, in the end…..I hate to see the world falling for a con artist, and so does women who knew him.

July 7, 2014 at 9:21 pm
Thanks KY, it was a great lesson, for his sake I left out the sordid details, because it wasn’t about bashing him, as much as I just cant stand that the truth is being hidden in the realm of reality shows. At some point we have to see that these shows manipulate the public, and deceive young women and man, about relationships, and life. Though I make a very good living, my worth is not attached to my bank account. and young people need to know, that the “baddest bitch” isn’t based on your pocket, but your dignity and self worth, of how you are as a person, and treat others.

July 7, 2014 at 9:06 pm
No, not disappointing, a lesson. Which l learned and grew from.



What is that saying?, Women can fake an orgasm, but men can fake a whole damn relationship and clearly this is the case…. One thing about our parents, they don’t trip for nothing, mama Joyce clearly saw through Todd, but Kandi was or is too blinded by the D to see what it really is…

6 thoughts on “One of Todd Rucker’s Ex’s Talks About His Motives Toward Kandi, Mama Joyce Maybe Right ?

  1. this sounds like a bitter bitch mad because she was not what Todd wanted.. only some one who is bitter states they are not bitter………why everything has to be about money why can’t he love kandi and want to be with her..what dose his mama and daddy life have to with his… mama Joyce is a gambler but nobody saying anything about that.. why because y’all looking in kandi’s wallet! bitch need to find her something else to do then worried about how the world is looking at Todd

  2. And you tell this now rather than before she got married because???? I’ll wait. I don’t have a problem with his ex putting him on blast but I do have a problem with her waiting till after the wedding.smh I hate when people tell you things after the fact. Even though Kandi may not have listened to her mother, she may have listened to his ex’s. It don’t affect my life but dayum, show me the light before I fall geesh.

  3. As much as I dislike Mama Joyce and her rude behavior, this information is very interesting and does make some sense. I would have gone my way if my husband to be mother was rude to me and my family. I guess time will tell.

  4. Wow. Maybe Kandi’s airtight pre-nup was a good idea after all. I hope for her sake that Joyce & the ex girlfriend are wrong about Todd.

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