Diddy visited the view the other day and of course they asked his take on Marriage and if he would ever settle down? Of course he gave this long spew of how people put too much emphasis on marriage and not enough on happiness. He says: “I’m happy, anybody that is in my life is happy. I just want to be happy and I think it’s important for you to protect your happiness and to love yourself, because then you can love other people the right way.” Note how he said anybody. Not naming specifics. What he MEANS to say is: Kim, Cassie and Sarah; whichever one Im feeling at the moment. Diddy is not slick. But at least he was honest.. I don’t care for Diddy but I can respect a man who refuses to get married when he isn’t ready for the commitment.
Diddy goes on to say : “It definitely would be a dream come true for me to just one day be ready for that.[…]I’m not really looking because I know the responsibility that comes with that and I think that a lot of people, they jump into that and they’re not honest with themselves. I’m brutally honest with myself. I don’t want to get married and not make that woman be the best. I’ve been close to it and when I’m ready I’ll make the announcement, but when I do it, I’m doing it forever.”
Diddy doesn’t value women. He sees them strictly as arm pieces. Remember when Kim Porter said in an interview that all the while he was escorting Jennifer Lopez at the red carpet events he was calling her afterwards asking her how he looked and making her feel that Jennifer was just for publicity. Kim eventually got smart and distanced herself from him. .
While some are taking shots at Kim, she may have received the best deal of them all. She doesn’t have to be publicly devalued any longer and has moved on with her life. I think the only woman that Diddy was deadset on marrying was Kim Porter and he even confirmed that with Oprah a long time ago....
…..Mean while Cassie is not caring…. She is on Instagram throwing around the change Diddy gives her……. it seems like Cassie has no end game. She’s on social media talking about “him” all the time and that’s not good. In my opinion, if she plays her cards right Diddy will always be there but she needs to figure out how can she use her relationship with him to somehow enhance her life financially. (Besides MUSIC and Modeling) You just never know with someone like Diddy who seems to become disinterested at a moments notice.